HOW TO PLAY THE ULTIMATE 'HE SAID SHE SAID' GAME!

AUTHOR: BEC OF 'FOR EVERY HEN'
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The He Said She Said game is not only simple, fun and interactive, but also gives guests a cheeky insight into their soon-to-be-married friend’s lives! For instructions (plus alternative ways to play), see below.

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HOW TO PLAY THE 'HE SAID SHE SAID' GAME

YOU WILL NEED:
Questions (and answers), printed question sheets for guests to fill in, pens/pencils.

​GAME INSTRUCTIONS:
To play, you first need to think of some fun he said she said questions to ask your favourite couple. To help get you started, here are some examples

• ​Who said ‘I love you’ first?
• Who proposed?
• Who met the future in-laws first?
• Who initiated the first kiss?
• Who is the biggest flirt?
• Who is the jokester?
• Who is more creative?
• Who’s the better cook?
• Who’s always right?
• Who wears the pants in your relationship?
• Who is most likely to be running late?
• Who is most likely to get lost?
• Who is the funniest?

Once you have your questions for he said she said, it’s time to get some answers!

Take your notes to your friend’s house and, one by one, ask them to agree on a ‘he’ or ‘she’ response. That being said, we know what couple life is like and there is bound to be debate in some instances! If they just CAN’T seem to decide on an answer (i.e. she keeps saying she wears the pants, he keeps saying that he does – you get the drift!) that’s absolutely fine. When it comes to that particular question on the day, it just means all players will be awarded 1 point, no matter what their answer is.

Handy hint: write down any cute bantering whilst they're answering, it will be fun to share with the girls on the day!

Now all that’s left to do is print off your questions (minus the answers - see some examples here for layout ideas) + your answer sheet in preparation for the big day!

Bridal shower ‘He said She said’ time: When it comes time to play, you can either put guests into groups and have them complete the questionnaire together, or have everyone complete the he said she said wedding game individually. Once the sheets have been handed to guests; ask your beautiful bride-to-be to slowly read the questions out loud to her party. When she’s made her way through the entire list, it’s time for you to take over and let everyone in on the actual answers (plus any hilarious couple banter that happened when you were questioning them!). Individuals/teams will be awarded one point for every correct answer. The person/group with the most points at the end wins!

ALTERNATIVE WAYS TO PLAY HE SAID SHE SAID

FILM IT
When you ask the beautiful couple what their answers are to each question, film the “interview”. You can then replay their hilariously cute debates (or their quick, identical answers!) for everyone to see! Not only a fun way to let the group know if they get a point or not for their answers, but also a lovely keepsake for your bride-to-be following her hens party/bridal shower and wedding celebrations.

NAUGHTY OR NICE?
As with most games, this can be played in two ways. There is a G-rated version, perfect for bridal showers or hen parties where a range of ages are attending. Then there is the MA15+ version, where the questions are a little more risqué and revealing – making it much better suited to a naughtier soiree! As always, tailor the game to suit your bride-to-be and her personality. You don’t want to play a raunchy game if it’s going to make her uncomfortable. On the other hand, if you know it will make her night, go for it! 

SHE SAID, SHE SAID / HE SAID, HE SAID
Hosting a bridal shower or hen’s party for a same sex couple? Change the name of the game – it’s that easy!

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HAVE THE BEST TIME PLAYING YOUR 'HE SAID SHE SAID' GAME!

I absolutely love hearing about your hen party, bridal shower and kitchen tea games in action! If you would like to share with others how you played (such as different rules) or how your guests’ reacted to this bridal shower 'he said she said' game, please let me know via the comments section or social media!

Cheers to an AMAZING party with the cutest, most hilarious couple moments!

Much love, keep smiling - Bec x
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