Category: Planning

PLAN LIKE A PRO: PROFESSIONALS SHARE THEIR BEST BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS!

28/1/2021

AUTHOR: BEC OF 'FOR EVERY HEN'
No matter the occasion, celebrations take a great deal of time and thought to orchestrate. Which is exactly why I want to share these wonderful Kitchen Tea, Bridal Shower and Hen Party Planning tips with you. Straight from the mouths of professional event planners the world over, tips and tricks like these will not only make your planning easier, but will also take it to the next level!

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APPEARANCES MATTER...

“There’s a reason social media sites such as Pinterest and Instagram are so popular – and that’s the fact people LOVE to look at beautiful photos. In fact, you’d probably be hard pressed to find a bride who hadn’t set up a board or two with inspiration for her own big day. With this in mind, take the lesson to heart that appearances matter and put in the time and effort to create a beautiful space with real wow factor.

It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money to do this. One of our favourite touches is Party Picks, which are small messages attached to toothpicks that you can insert into everything from cupcakes to macarons. They’re exactly the sort of thing you would see in an editorial wedding shoot, and help elevate a sense of style.

Oversized balloons are also on trend right now, as are gorgeous tassles in hues ranging from pastel to metallic. Brides are also loving handmade celebration flags, which are attached to retro stripe and polka dot straws and have messages such as “hooray” and “kitchen tea”. They look especially appearling sitting in a mini milk bottle full of Pimms or punch, again enhancing the idea that little touches can have a big impact.

Something else you can also never go wrong with is bunting, especially if it pays tribute to the woman of the hour. Other great decorative ideas include massive paper flowers in vases, mason jars filled with biscuits and candy, and of course, as many awesome but slightly embarrassing photos of the hen as you can find.”

- Amy De Groot (easyweddings.com.au)

IT’S NOT ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY THE HOST SPENDS...

“The ultimate [celebrations] are not about how much money the host spends... but rather how creative the planner gets. The most memorable events are the ones that make us FEEL deeply!

While it’s wonderful to shower the bride with gifts, the experience is way more important than the amount of things she ultimately takes home.

Consider choosing a theme that has meaning and significance for the bride – a tribute to her childhood or something that celebrates her passions. Anything goes these days so think outside the box and don’t be afraid to try something new. I’ve seen everything from life drawing with a nude model (for the artist bride) to a full on carnival-themed extravaganza complete with flame throwers and elephants!”

- Hayley Devlin (hayleydevlin.com)

IT’S ALL ABOUT THE LOCATION...

“It’s all about the location for any event. Make sure the bride loves where you’re going and if outdoors, scope it out beforehand. Make sure it’s at the same time of day your party will be so you can check how busy it is and where the shady spots are! Check public transport and the toilet situation as well as parking and any restrictions around what you can and can’t do in the space (those city councils can be strict!). The more planning you do upfront, the better your day will flow in the end”

- Ebby Carson (littlebirdevents.com.au)

IT SHOULD BE PERSONAL, FUN, ENGAGING & CREATIVE...

“Bridal Showers, Kitchen Teas and Hen Parties should be personal, fun, engaging and creative.

My number one tip is to choose a theme that of course relates to the bride.

For example, if she loves to cook, a Kitchen Bridal Shower is a great theme. Guests will be asked to send the bride-to-be a family recipe along with the RSVP. The recipes can go into a special cookbook which will be presented at the shower.

Centerpieces will include kitchen utensils in the midst of the florals and gifts must be kitchen related.

All guests will be given personalised aprons and games can be created based on the brides and grooms’ cooking skills, best and worst cooking experience, and favourite foods.

The more interactive and themed the more guests can use their imagination and creativity.”

- Lynne Goldberg (msweddingplanner.com)

GET THE DECOR RIGHT...

When planning a hens night, it's important to “get the décor right. If your bride is an Instagram Queen and into romantic themes, floral arrangements, candles, and festoon lightings, try to incorporate those things into the décor.

Personalized décor and old photographs are always a hit and a nice way to celebrate special friendships between the bridal party. Try to get an image from each guest to display around the room or on a photo board.
If you are a bit crafty, you can create amazing decorations on a budget! Check out Pinterest or Kmart hacks for inspiration.

It doesn’t have to be expensive, but make sure you go along with what the bride would like”

- Clare (customneon.com.au)

KNOW THE TONE...

“When organising a hen party, know the tone. If Mother-in-law is attending, the blushing bride may not feel totally comfortable dressed up as a giant penis! So asses the situation first.

Likewise, if the bride is insistent on no stripper, don’t have one turn up in the hope she will love it after a few wines. Strippers and willy straws are not prerequisites for a successful hen party!”

- Clare (customneon.com.au)

TAILOR ACTIVITIES TO THE HEN'S PERSONALITY...

"When you’re in the midst of hen do planning, make sure that you “tailor or customise the activities to the Hen’s personality.

If she doesn’t like going out, then don’t force it and plan for a movie marathon with bubbles. Or if she’s an outdoorsy type, plan a weekend away camping.

When you start planning the special day/night, stop to ask yourself – would she plan this for herself?”

- Jamie-Lee Kay (theotherstraw.com)

HAVE KITCHEN TEA, BRIDAL SHOWER AND/OR HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS TO SHARE?

Whether you’re a professional event planner, or a bridesmaid who has organised her fair share of celebrations; we’d love to know how you did it! Simply email bec@foreveryhen.com.au for your chance to have your fave planning tip featured in this article and our magazine!

FINAL THOUGHTS ON THESE BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS

Whilst planning a celebration can feel quite overwhelming at times, I hope the above tips, tricks and ideas have put your mind at ease and provided you with LOTS of inspiration.

At the end of the day, you can tell whether or not someone has put the effort in when organising an event. Your bride-to-be will be able to see the thought and love that went into creating her special day, and she will adore you even more for it!

As mentioned earlier in the article, if you have any bridal shower and/or hens night planning tips and tricks that you would like to share with our readers, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Until then, much love – keep smiling! Bec x
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KITCHEN TEA IDEAS: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE!

10/9/2020

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AUTHOR: BEC OF 'FOR EVERY HEN'
So you’re hosting a Kitchen Tea for your best friend/sibling and cannot wait to start planning! Which begs the question... where exactly do you start your planning? And what exactly do you need to plan for? Jam packed full of amazing Kitchen Tea ideas, this article 100% has your back! From those early chats with the bride-to-be, right through to activities and games, everything you need to know about hosting a memorable Kitchen Tea is outlined below!

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START YOUR KITCHEN TEA PLANNING EARLY

The best tip I can give you is to start your planning early! Whilst it may not appear to be, organising a Kitchen Tea is quite the job. Every task, no matter how big or small, adds up. Meaning if you want to create a beautiful, thoughtful event, you will need to put in the time and effort.

CATCH UP WITH THE BRIDE

Before you start to plan anything it’s a great idea to have a chat with your beautiful bride to make sure you’re both on the same page. At your catch up, it’s important to get an idea of the following:

WHAT TYPE OF CELEBRATION IS SHE REALLY AFTER?
Before you go ahead and plan an incredibly beautiful kitchen tea, make sure it’s what she really wants! You don’t want to go to all of this effort only to find out that she was hoping for a bridal shower, or even a hen’s party.

>>> RELATED ARTICLE: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HEN PARTY, BRIDAL SHOWER & KITCHEN TEA EVENTS! <<<

WHEN DOES SHE WANT TO HAVE THE KITCHEN TEA?
Once you’ve established the fact that it’s a Kitchen Tea she’s after, it’s time to work out a date! It’s best to let your bride-to-be pick a day and time that suits her.

On the one hand, wedding planning is HUGE so she’s likely to be pretty busy in the lead-up to her special day (meaning hosting the Kitchen Tea at least two weeks before her nuptials is ideal). On the other hand, if you host the event closer to her wedding, it’s more likely that guests from out of town will be able to attend.

Let her weigh up the pros and cons of each scenario, and come to a decision that works best for her situation. Then pop it in the calendar!

WHO DOES SHE WANT TO INVITE?
Traditionally, a Kitchen Tea is reserved for female friends and family members; but in this day and age there’s no reason close male friend/s and family can’t attend as well (if the bride-to-be wishes, of course!). A Kitchen Tea is also the perfect type of celebration for all generations, with grandmothers and children alike finding it an enjoyable occasion.

With all of this in mind, it’s best to have your bride-to-be write out a guest list for you. This means that everyone she wants to share this special day with has the opportunity to attend!

SAVE THE DATE

★Click here to view a selection of fun ‘Save the Date’ E-vites★
Woohoo! It's time to put the word out to those lucky enough to score an invite! By sending out a ‘Save the Date’ early you’re giving everyone a greater chance of being able to attend (babysitters can be organised, work can be moved around, etc.).

Share the upcoming special date with your bride-to-be’s guest list via digital E-vite (you can find some fun options by clicking here), email, physical post or even a Facebook event page and get everyone pumped for what will be an incredibly fun day!

START BRAINSTORMING

Thanks to your new intel (from the bride-to-be herself!), you now know when the party will be, who is invited, and the fact that it’s a Kitchen Tea she’s after. With this information at hand, it’s now time to move to the next stage of your planning – brainstorming!

If you haven’t already, get in touch with the other bridesmaids (and/or family members who are helping to plan the Kitchen Tea). An email thread or group conversation on Facebook is a great way to connect with each other and share Kitchen Tea ideas.

Chat about everything from themes, games, activities, food, drinks and gift ideas through to prizes, favours and special ways to personalise the day (e.g. by ordering bunches of her favourite flowers to use as part of the decorations). By putting your heads together you’ll be able to come up with an event tailored to your bride-to-be; one that is well thought out, meaningful and so special!

Tip: Not sure what to do at a kitchen tea? There is some great inspiration (everything from activities to favours) further down in this article!

SET A BUDGET

Now that you have a few ideas rolling around, it’s time to set a budget (a realistic one!). Unlike hen parties, guests attending a Kitchen Tea or Bridal Shower aren’t asked to make a monetary donation towards the day (because gift giving is involved). Rather, the host pays for it all.

It’s important to keep this detail in mind; you don’t want to stretch yourself financially. That being said, the overall costs can be split between bridesmaids and/or family members if they are helping to host the event.

DECIDE ON A LOCATION

Despite the name suggesting that a Kitchen Tea is to be held in, well, a kitchen, when it comes to the venue, the possibilities are pretty endless!

Depending on your budget, a Kitchen Tea could be held at a home (bridesmaids, Maid of Honour, or Mother of the Bride’s houses are all fabulous options) or a hired venue. You could also book a table at your bride-to-be’s favourite cafe/restaurant, or venture into the outdoors; hosting the celebration at a park, near the beach, in the forest, or in a backyard.

SET A THEME

Not essential, but definitely an exciting little surprise for guests and bride-to-be alike! Sweet and classy Kitchen Tea themes such as Mad Hatter Tea Party, Boho, Vintage, White, Her Favourite Colour, Pastels, Fairytale, Handmade, Flowers, Winter, Summer or even Tropical are all popular options. Keep it simple and elegant, with a touch of fun!

Tip: I personally find it easier to decorate when I have a theme in mind. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate. Even picking a few colours (e.g. white, light pink and light purple) makes everything so much easier.

This doesn't mean you go all out in the decor department (because sometimes less really is more). It just means that when you're choosing bunches of flowers, for instance, you stick to that same colour palette (white, light pink and light purple). Everything will flow nicely that way.

Photo credit: littlemisspartyplanner.com.au

SURPRISE THE BRIDE WITH A KITCHEN TEA ACTIVITY

Just because it’s not a hen party doesn’t mean you can’t surprise your beautiful girl with a sweet activity or two! Below are some of our favourite options (many of which slot in perfectly with the overall ‘Kitchen’ theme!):

BAKING PARTY
Kitchen Teas are all about sharing knowledge with others. One of the best ways to do this is by sharing a family recipe and baking it all-together!

A special bonding experience (especially if this is a recipe passed down through many generations) that results in good food and conversation (because, you have to eat what you make!). Working as a group, wine in hand, learning new tricks and creating a delicious feast – it’s bound to be one memorable experience.

BEAUTIFUL BOUQUETS
Fill a cart or table with an assortment of beautiful flowers. At some point during the day, announce to the party that it’s time get creative. Draw their attention to the flowers and explain that they aren’t just for decoration – they are, in fact, an activity!

Ask guests to make their way to the table and pick out a few of their favourite blooms. Once everyone has a handful of flowers, it’s time to gather around the kitchen table. Bring out craft supplies such as scissors, ribbons and twine so that each guest can then create their very own take-home ‘wedding bouquets’! A fun activity and favour all in one.

Tip: if you want to make a lasting bouquet, consider using dried flowers rather than fresh!

BISCUIT DECORATING
A wonderful Kitchen Tea activity that any age can (and will) enjoy! Make sure you have enough edible decorations (such as sprinkles, icing in a range of colours, shaved chocolate, etc.) for all; then watch in awe as plain biscuits are transformed into heavenly treats before your eyes.

You could even make a little competition out of it, requesting guests create ‘wedding themed’ biscuits; handing out a special prize for the masterpiece judged ‘most creative’ by the bride-to-be!

CUPCAKE DRESSES
Similar to above, but rather than sticking to the general ‘wedding’ theme, this time make the rules a little stricter!

Provide guests with piping bags, icing and edible decorations; then leave them to create cute wedding dresses on top of their cupcakes. Take it one step further by printing off small images of your bride-to-be’s face and sticking them to the top of toothpicks. Carefully place these picks into the ‘cupcake dresses’; demonstrating how b-e-a-utiful your bride would look in these sweet-as-can-be outfits on her wedding day!

Side note: This activity could also be used as a cheeky competition - chosen by your bride-to-be, the top 'fashion designer' wins a prize!

EDIBLE KITCHEN GARDEN
Why not help your bride-to-be set up an edible garden for the kitchen by organising a bit of a herb planting sesh?!

Set up a table filled with pots, herb seeds (or starter plants), soil, gloves and small shovels. From here, it’s up to guests (and the bride) to get their hands dirty. And the best part about this activity? These mini herb gardens provide entertainment AND a lasting favour all in one!

HIRE A CARICATURE ARTIST
For a kitchen tea with a very unique twist, why not invest some coin in having a caricature artist come to the party? The bride-to-be along with each of her guests will have the opportunity to be sketched; resulting in gifts/favours that will be forever treasured! It also provides MANY giggles, oohs and ahhs as those watching on see the caricature of their friend come to life in real time!

>>> RELATED ARTICLE: HAVING A CARICATURE ARTIST AT YOUR PARTY <<<

LIVE MUSIC
If your bestie enjoys nothing more than hitting up the gig scene, or sitting back and listening to some chilled out tunes, incorporate her love for music by hiring a local musician to entertain. The mix of acoustic melodies, good food, good people and good wine is a recipe for success.

SPLURGE ON PROFESSIONAL CHEFS
If you have cash to splash, there is also the option of hosting a cooking class. Either hire a personal chef to cook restaurant quality food for guests in your home (everyone can watch on and learn some sneaky tricks of the trade at the same time!), or take part in a cooking class at a dedicated venue (whereby guests create their own meals, before sitting down and eating their concoctions together).

SPOIL HER WITH A TIME CAPSULE
Help your best friend and her husband celebrate their one year wedding anniversary with a sweet time capsule. To organise, you’ll need to prepare guests before the celebration by asking them to do one or more of the following:

Bring an additional, small, wrapped gift to the Kitchen Tea (a unique kitchen utensil, for example)
Write down date night ideas for the happy couple to complete during their second year of marriage
Write down memories you have of the couple (e.g. what happened the first time you met them)
Wishes for the bride and her husband
Recipes for a happy marriage
Special recipes the couple can cook together
A memento of their friendship with the couple (e.g. photos from years ago)
A surprise (this can be anything the guest wishes to write/bring)

Ask everyone to add their goodies to the ‘time capsule’ box as they arrive (or throughout the party).

Seal the box once the celebration has wrapped up and gift to your best friend. Make sure you give her strict instructions NOT to open it before her wedding anniversary! If she doesn’t think she’ll last, keep it at your place and gift it to her one year later – what a beautiful surprise it will be!

SEND YOUR KITCHEN TEA INVITATIONS

Now that you have an idea of where the celebration will be, whether or not it will be themed, and what (if any) activities you'll be participating in, it's time to tell the guests! When putting your Kitcen Tea invitations together, make sure you include the following points:

What the event is, and who it's for
The date of the celebration and the time it will start (you may wish to include an approximate end time as well)
Where the event will be held (house, cafe, restaurant, garden)
Whether or not the Kitchen Tea details on this invite are to be kept a secret from the bride-to-be - meaning you can surprise her on her special day!
Whether or not guests have to bring anything (i.e. a kitchen gift for the bride-to-be, notes for the time capsule, etc.)
RSVP date and time, alongside your phone number and email

If you decide to do one or two activities and wish to let the guests in on these plans, don't forget to put this information on the invites too. For example, if you're hiring a musician for the day, let guests know when the performance will start so that everyone arrives in plenty of time.

That being said, it can be fun to surprise guests as well - imagine arriving at a celebration and, surprise, finding live acoustic music in the lounge-room!

PLAY SOME GAMES FOR A KITCHEN TEA

Whether they’re used as ice-breakers or to add a bit of lighthearted fun to the day, having a few Kitchen Tea games up your sleeve is definitely a must!

BRIDAL TRIVIA
Create your very own trivia game, based entirely on your best friend! To organise, have a chat with your bride-to-be about her fun, weird, interesting and silly quirks (the ones she’s happy to share), and make up questions to go along with her answers.

At the Kitchen Tea, separate guests into groups and, one by one, make your way through each of your pre-written questions. The team who gets the most correct win a prize!

HE SAID SHE SAID
★Click here for He Said She Said question inspiration★
First things first – you need to come up with some super cute couple questions to ask the bride and groom! These can be anything from ‘who met the future in-laws first’ to ‘who proposed?’. Tailor these to your friends as best you can. Print off your questions and head on over to your fave couples house; asking them to fill out their answers.

At the party, hand each guest (or team) a piece of paper and a pen. Now, slowly read out the questions to the group; asking players to write down their answers as you go. When you’ve finished, have your bride-to-be read out the actual answers. One point is awarded for every correct answer; with the person/team receiving the most points at the end being the winner/s.

>>> RELATED ARTICLE: HOW TO PLAY THE ULTIMATE 'HE SAID SHE SAID' GAME <<<

KITCHEN TEA BINGO
When it comes to playing time, ask each party-goer to fill in the blank squares with gifts they think the bride-to-be will receive. As your beautiful bride opens her presents, guests must watch on closely and cross off any gifts that they wrote down before the game started. First to get five in a row (and yell 'BINGO') wins!

MR & MRS QUIZ
This game requires a little bit of organisation (but it is definitely worth it!). A few weeks before the party, ask the soon-to-be husband to answer some questions about himself, his soon-to-be bride, and their relationship. When coming up with these questions, be mindful of the guest list at this Kitchen Tea and the age of guests attending. Keep it classy and fun!

On the day of the Kitchen Tea, sit your beautiful bride-to-be down and, one by one, ask her the very same questions. See how many the couple answer the same!

Tip: Film the groom answering each question. You can then play each of his answers back on the TV after your bride has given her answer. This is a sweet way to tell the party whether or not she was correct.

RECIPES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE
★Click here for ‘Recipe Card’ inspiration★
This sweet game (that doubles as a keepsake for the bride-to-be!) can be played in one of two ways:

Set out a bunch of wooden spoons and permanent markers next to a printed/framed sign (saying something along the lines of “please write your recipe for a happy marriage on a wooden spoon!” - That's not very creative by me, but you get the gist!).
Place a bunch of homemade ‘recipe cards’ (i.e. a page with the heading ‘recipe’ followed by empty lines) next to a box or chest. Once again, set up a sign letting guests know what to do (e.g. “please share your favourite recipe for a happy marriage”).

From here it’s up to guests to share their words of wisdom. At the end of the celebration, your bride-to-be can take home and read these ‘recipes’ in the lead-up to her special day!

WHAT AGE WAS THE BRIDE?
★Click here to view a selection of beautiful ‘What Age was the Bride?’ playing cards★

This is such a cute game! To get it ready, print off at least 5 photos of your bride-to-be from different points in her life. Be sure to write down her correct age in each photo and keep these little details in a safe place (you will need to know this information on the day of her Kitchen Tea!). Display these pictures as you wish (stick to the wall, frame each photo individually, frame photos as a collage, pin to a pinboard, etc.). When it comes time to play, ask each of the girls to guess what age they think the bride-to-be was in the photographs. The person who gets the most right wins!

Tip: This game can also be played with photographs from the bride and groom’s relationship. Guests can then guess the order these big (or small) events in their lives happened or where they were when the photo was taken. Alternatively, Share photos of baby husband and baby wife – guests have to try and guess which baby is which!

For 20 more kitchen tea game ideas, click here!

OTHER KITCHEN TEA IDEAS

MAKE YOUR BEST FRIEND FEEL EXTRA SPECIAL
This Kitchen Tea is all about celebrating your best friend – so making her feel special is a must!

There are so many ways you can do this; from playing her favourite music, decorating with her favourite flowers and/or creating thoughtful keepsakes, to serving her favourite foods and supplying her favourite drink/s. You could also surprise her by bringing a theme to life that she absolutely adores, or by organising an extra special group gift – something she’s always spoken about but never actually owned.

It’s the little things that really count – the thoughtful touches that will mean the world to her. So put your heads together and come up with ways to wow her. It doesn’t have to be expensive; it just has to be her!

DECORATE LIKE A PRO!
When it comes to decor, you can have so much fun! Whether you go for a themed celebration (as mentioned earlier), stick to an overall ‘Kitchen’ vibe, or simply place a few stunning bunches of flowers around; you really can’t go wrong! To help get you inspired, we’ve shared some of our favourite Kitchen Tea decoration ideas below:

ADD COLOUR WITH FLOWERS
when it comes to decorations, flowers are the BEST! Stunning, elegant and colourful, these beauties come in all shapes and sizes (and can be displayed in a range of fun ways, too!). For inspiration when it comes to floral decor, click here.

COUNT DOWN TO THE WEDDING
Using a blackboard or large sign, build excitement by highlighting how little time is left before the big day! E.g. ’14 days until she says ‘I Do’!’

FUNNY FACES
Help guests tell their glasses/champagne flutes apart in the best kind of way by printing off (at the smallest photo size possible) a range of funny (and nice) images of your bride-to-be.

Now for the fun part! Attach one photo per glass (that is, every single glass/champagne flute has it's own individual image of the bride attached to the stem or handle. A hole punch and some twine is an easy way to get this done).

Party-goers will have a great time checking out each other's images AND they won't forget which cup is theirs!

KITCHEN UTENSILS
Want the Kitchen Tea to be stunning, different and memorable? Why not use kitchen utensils as they've never been used before!

Fill teapots and teacups with flowers, use cheese graters as candle covers, place floating candles in wine glasses, fill the bowl of a mix master with floral bunches, etc.

Mixing a couple of these eccentric decorations into the day will not only create a fun vibe, but will also continue the Kitchen Tea theme no matter what your location may be (garden, lounge room, etc.).

TEA TIN VASES
For a unique twist on floral decor, why not dig out some old (washed!) tea tins and fill them with stunning blooms? This not only brings the ‘Kitchen Tea’ theme to life, but also makes for a fun talking point.

THE CARDBOARD GROOM
After some funny photo ops? A hilarious way to surprise the bride-to-be? Why not invest in a life-size cutout of the groom?!

WEDDING PHOTOS
Add a sweet, personal touch to the celebration by incorporating old wedding photos. Parents of the bride, parents of the groom, grandparents, etc. These could be framed or placed neatly in a photo album (with a special space at the beginning saved for your bride-to-be!).

If you're after some stunning eco-decor ideas for your Kitchen Tea celebration, click here.

KITCHEN TEA FAVOUR IDEAS
If you would like to give your guests a little something at the end of the celebration, check out the following ideas:

BAKED GOODS
Whether you whip up some delicious baked goods on your own, or order from one of the local bake houses, goodies such as cookies, cupcakes, mini cakes, chocolates and more make for beautiful (and mouth-watering!) favour ideas. Pack neatly in little bags or boxes for extra style.

COOKIE CUTTER SET
Coming in a range of shapes and sizes, you can get your hands on cookie cutter sets for just about any theme/occasion! A fun Kitchen Tea favour that’s also extremely handy in the home, cookie cutter sets are something your lucky guests can use again and again for many years to come!

EDIBLE PLANTS/SEEDS
★Click to view gorgeous seed pack favours★
Help guests create their own little kitchen garden by gifting either mini plant or seed pack favours! Thoughtful, eco-friendly, long-lasting and useful, these edible blooms make such a wonderful gift! Whether they are herbs, vegetables or fruits, party-goers are bound to be excited by the thought of adding to their indoor (or outdoor) gardens.

ENGRAVED WOODEN SPOONS
★Click to view some gorgeous, personalized wooden spoons★
It’s safe to say that wooden spoons are a well-used kitchen utensil – which also makes them a fabulous favour idea! But rather than handing out plain wooden spoons that can be picked up at any cooking store, why not make things a little more special and have each spoon engraved? From quotes to sweet messages, there are many ways to bring the fun to your Kitchen Tea with these divine (and useful) favours!

FLOWER BOUQUETS
Typically the bride-to-be gives away her bouquet at the wedding, so this is a fun little twist on tradition that the girls will love. For a bouquet that lasts, we recommend using dried flowers rather than fresh.

TEA CUP SUCCULENTS
Head on down to your local op shop and find yourself some pretty tea cups! Fill each of these little beauties with succulents and soil; then finish off your favour by attaching a name tag to the handle. Living favours with a unique twist – everyone will love them!

After more Kitchen Tea favour inspiration? Check out the following articles:

Party Bag Ideas - Delight Your Guests with Eco-gift
Bridal Shower Prize Ideas (these also work nicely as favours)

FINAL THOUGHTS ON PLANNING A KITCHEN TEA

Phew! That was a lot of info to digest, but hopefully it has answered your question about how to plan a kitchen tea (and in turn will make your planning that little bit easier and a lot more fun!). I'll keep adding to this article as more ideas come to mind. Likewise, if I've missed any inspiration you feel others would LOVE, please don't hesitate to share your thoughts via the comments section below or on our socials (AUS Facebook Group | Worldwide Facebook Group | Pinterest).

Cheers to a wonderful Kitchen Tea (planned to a tee!).

Much love, keep smiling - Bec x

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REVEALED: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BRIDAL SHOWER AND BACHELORETTE PARTY EVENTS!

3/9/2020

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AUTHOR: BEC OF 'FOR EVERY HEN'
Imagine, for just one moment… you’re engaged (woohoo!), you’ve chosen your bridal party, and the wedding planning has well and truly begun. Everything is slowly coming together, with your special date fast approaching.

And whilst you’ve been busying yourself with a ridiculously long list of tasks that go hand-in-hand with organizing such a large event, those beautiful bridesmaids of yours have been secretly planning something too. A special celebration for your beautiful self! One last hurrah where you can celebrate your final days as a ‘single’ lady whilst surrounded by close friends and family.

Which begs the question… how do you want to spend your ‘final fling before the ring’?
Hen’s party, bridal shower or kitchen tea?

But to answer this question, you first need to know: what IS the difference between bridal shower and bachelorette party? Is a kitchen tea and bridal shower the same thing?

To help, we discuss the three different options below!

The difference between bridal shower and bachelorette party

WHAT IS A KITCHEN TEA?

WHAT DO YOU DO AT A KITCHEN TEA?
Generally held during the day, a ‘Kitchen Tea’ is a fairly relaxed occasion whereby the bride’s closest friends and family (including the groom’s family) gather to share advice regarding the kitchen, enjoy some refreshments, dig in to some light meals and/or high tea, and play a couple of sweet games.

It is also commonplace for guests to bring along small gifts suitable for the kitchen (a way to help the happy couple set up their marital home).

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WHO SCORES AN INVITE?
This type of celebration is perfect for those who wish to include the generations in their special day; with grandmothers, aunts, parents and younger family members all finding a Kitchen Tea welcoming and enjoyable.

And whilst this type of event was traditionally reserved for female friends and family only, the guest list is entirely up to the host (meaning close male friend/s and family members are more than welcome to take part in the day if you wish!).

WHERE DO YOU CELEBRATE?
When it comes to location, the beauty of hosting a Kitchen Tea is that there are an abundance of options! As long as the venue is somewhere you feel comfortable celebrating, giggling and telling stories, there is no reason you can’t celebrate there.

Whether this be a café, restaurant, house or even a picnic in the park/at the beach depends on your budget and the style of party you’re after.

FUN KITCHEN TEA GAME IDEA/S:
A sweet, fun and useful Kitchen Tea activity involves asking each guest to write down their favourite recipe prior to the event; bringing it along with them on the actual day.

When everyone has arrived, collect the recipes and stick them into a scrapbook. Leave this on a ‘guest book’ table alongside a Polaroid camera and some pens. This gives guests’ the chance to add photos of themselves with the bride-to-be, extra notes, etc. next to their recipe contribution.

Memories of the day will come flooding back every time the bride uses this book to create masterpieces in the kitchen!

You can find more fun kitchen tea game ideas by clicking here.

WHAT IS A BRIDAL SHOWER (A.K.A. WEDDING SHOWER)?

WHAT DO YOU DO AT A BRIDAL SHOWER?
Held during the day, a ‘Bridal Shower’ is basically a relaxed celebration with your closest friends and family members (including the groom’s family).

Similar to the Kitchen Tea, light meals or high tea is enjoyed, refreshments are served, a few fun games are played, and advice regarding marriage and/or the home is shared. Guests’ may also take this opportunity to ‘shower’ the bride-to-be with gifts (hence the name!). However, unlike the ‘Kitchen Tea’ where gifts are reserved for the kitchen only, offers received at a Bridal Shower can be used anywhere in the home.

WHO SCORES AN INVITE?
Once again, this is a fantastic way to celebrate with grandmothers, aunts, parents and younger family members. Traditionally, it is a female-only event; however as mentioned earlier, it is entirely up to you who makes the final guest list!

WHERE DO YOU CELEBRATE?
Whether Bridal Showers are held at the maid of honour’s house or a favourite café down the road, it’s bound to be a good time! As with the Kitchen tea, just make sure the chosen venue is somewhere you feel comfortable sharing stories, having a laugh and letting loose (just a little bit!).

FUN BRIDAL SHOWER GAME IDEA/S:
This is a favourite of ours because it’s a fun activity and beautiful keepsake all in one! To play, simply ask each guest to write down their favourite memory involving the bride-to-be onto a piece of paper. Collect each memory and, one-by-one, read them aloud to the group. The bride-to-be must then try and guess who each memory belongs to (she may even like to tell the back story if it’s a good one!).

After the shower, stick each of the memories into a scrapbook or photo album – a lovely souvenir from a wonderful day!

Click here to find more fun bridal shower games.

WHAT IS A HENS PARTY (A.K.A. BACHELORETTE PARTY)?

WHAT IS A HENS PARTY?
In complete contrast to the relaxed family affairs mentioned above, a ‘Hens Party’ is often quite the adventure! Generally beginning with some drinks, nibbles and ice-breaker games, the hens soon move on to an activity or two.

Depending on the bride-to-be and her wishes (it’s always a good idea to find out what type of celebration she’s after before planning anything!), these activities could be anything from a group dance class to a strip show.

By the time the pre-planned shenanigans have finished, expect guests to be well and truly in party mode! It’s not uncommon for celebrations to continue well into the small hours of the morning.

WHO SCORES AN INVITE?
As a hens party can be quite revealing at times, the bride-to-be must feel comfortable with those in attendance. Therefore, inviting close friends and, if the hen doesn’t get embarrassed easily, family, is a safe bet. This is definitely not the type of event for youngsters (and grandmothers may not appreciate an invite either!).

That being said, a hens party doesn’t have to be all cheek. Many brides are opting for classy celebrations these days – no peckers in site – making them more accommodating to other attendees!

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WHERE DO YOU CELEBRATE?
When it comes to location, hen’s parties differ greatly. Almost always they begin at a particular meeting point (such as a house, hotel room or restaurant). This provides time for guests to arrive, get to know one another, and have a few drinks/nibbles before anything too crazy kicks off.

Where to next depends on what has been planned. Travel to activities is quite common; however with so many mobile entertainment options available these days, hen parties at home (or at one particular venue) are becoming more and more popular.

FUN HEN PARTY GAME IDEA/S?
‘Before’ and ‘After’ photos make for some hilarious keepsakes of the night. Simply take a picture of each guest as they arrive (looking Ah-mazing!), holing a blackboard or sign that says ‘Before’. Take another photo as guests’ leave (this time holding a board or sign that says ‘After’).

Stick each guests’ before and after photo next to each other in a book and challenge your hen to NOT smile when she looks back at it!

For a huge list of hen party games (sweet, cheeky and everything in between!), click here.

BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE - WHAT NOW?

If you’re not sure what type of celebration your beautiful bride-to-be is after, definitely ask her! If a particular style jumps out at her, let the bridesmaids know as soon as possible and plan accordingly. This will not only mean that you can organize something truly special, but will also ensure that the guest of honour doesn’t end up getting whisked away on a hen’s party when what she really wanted was a bridal shower (or vice versa).

To help with your planning journey, check out the 'Party Planning Tips' page by clicking here!

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If you enjoyed learning about the difference between bridal shower and bachelorette party, you may also enjoy the following! The first article gives you a RIDICULOUS amount of info on Kitchen Tea Parties and how to host them. The second outlines so many wonderful ways to personalise the day; ensuring that your bride feels extra special! Click here to learn more.

CONCLUDING ON BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE PARTY EVENTS

Whether you end up organizing a casual high tea, a cheeky night on the town, or a little bit of both, it’s sure to be an event to remember! Why? Because when someone is surrounded by all of their incredible friends at the same time, fun and laughs WILL be had – no matter where you are or what you’re doing!

If you have anything else to add, please don't hesitate to share your thoughts in the comments section below (or via our socials: AUS Facebook Group | Worldwide Facebook Group | Pinterest).

Cheers to an AMAZING celebration, no matter the style!

Much love, keep smiling - Bec x

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GET THE DECOR RIGHT...

KNOW THE TONE...

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WHAT IS A BRIDAL SHOWER (A.K.A. WEDDING SHOWER)?

WHAT IS A HENS PARTY (A.K.A. BACHELORETTE PARTY)?

BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE - WHAT NOW?

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PLAN LIKE A PRO: PROFESSIONALS SHARE THEIR BEST BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS!

APPEARANCES MATTER...

IT’S NOT ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY THE HOST SPENDS...

IT’S ALL ABOUT THE LOCATION...

IT SHOULD BE PERSONAL, FUN, ENGAGING & CREATIVE...

GET THE DECOR RIGHT...

KNOW THE TONE...

TAILOR ACTIVITIES TO THE HEN'S PERSONALITY...

HAVE KITCHEN TEA, BRIDAL SHOWER AND/OR HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS TO SHARE?

RELATED HENS PARTY PLANNING ARTICLES

FINAL THOUGHTS ON THESE BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS

​P.S. THE BELOW IMAGE IS PERFECT FOR PINTEREST... GO ON & SHARE THESE BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS - YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO! :-)

KITCHEN TEA IDEAS: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE!

START YOUR KITCHEN TEA PLANNING EARLY

​CATCH UP WITH THE BRIDE

SAVE THE DATE

START BRAINSTORMING

SET A BUDGET

DECIDE ON A LOCATION

SET A THEME

SURPRISE THE BRIDE WITH A KITCHEN TEA ACTIVITY

SEND YOUR KITCHEN TEA INVITATIONS

​PLAY SOME GAMES FOR A KITCHEN TEA

​OTHER KITCHEN TEA IDEAS

​RELATED KITCHEN TEA ARTICLES

FINAL THOUGHTS ON PLANNING A KITCHEN TEA

P.S. THE BELOW IMAGE IS PERFECT FOR PINTEREST... GO ON & SHARE THESE KITCHEN TEA PLANNING TIPS - YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO! :-)

REVEALED: THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BRIDAL SHOWER AND BACHELORETTE PARTY EVENTS!

​WHAT IS A KITCHEN TEA?

WHAT IS A BRIDAL SHOWER (A.K.A. WEDDING SHOWER)?

WHAT IS A HENS PARTY (A.K.A. BACHELORETTE PARTY)?

BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE - WHAT NOW?

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CONCLUDING ON BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE PARTY EVENTS

P.S. THE BELOW IMAGE IS PERFECT FOR PINTEREST... GO ON & SHARE THIS BRIDAL SHOWER VS BACHELORETTE PARTY INFO - YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO! :-)

P.S. THE BELOW IMAGE IS PERFECT FOR PINTEREST... GO ON & SHARE THESE BRIDAL SHOWER & HEN PARTY PLANNING TIPS - YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO! :-)

CATCH UP WITH THE BRIDE

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